Quick Read
- Spencer Matthews shared his feelings about being separated from Vogue Williams while she competes on I’m A Celeb.
- The couple met in 2017, married in 2018, and have three children together.
- Spencer is taking on Project Seven, his own endurance challenge, while Vogue is in Australia.
- Vogue addressed rumors of a split, attributing them to social media speculation.
- Both publicly support each other’s ambitions despite conflicting schedules.
Spencer Matthews Reflects on ‘Weird’ Separation from Vogue Williams
For Spencer Matthews and Vogue Williams, 2025 brought a test of togetherness—and distance. As Vogue entered the Australian jungle for ITV’s I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here!, her husband Spencer found himself half a world away, navigating his own demanding schedule. The couple, known for their open approach to sharing their lives, have been candid about the difficulties of being apart, especially when the spotlight is trained on them.
Behind the Social Media: Real Emotions and Support
Spencer, best known for his time on Made in Chelsea and a string of reality TV appearances, took to Instagram to share how “weird” it feels to be separated from Vogue. His post, paired with a cozy selfie, was more than just a public declaration; it was a window into the real challenges faced by couples in the public eye. “Impossible to love this woman more… So proud. Not just of what she’s doing now, but generally,” he wrote, capturing the bittersweet reality of supporting a partner from afar.
He continued, “Admiring her when we first met and wanting to be more like her helped me become a better person. I probably wouldn’t have achieved half the things I’m now proud of if it weren’t for her.” The words echo a sentiment that many can relate to: the transformative power of partnership, and the ache of missing someone who’s become a cornerstone of your life.
Spencer’s honesty didn’t stop there. He described the surreal moments when, out of habit, he reaches for his phone to share life’s highs and lows with Vogue, only to remember the jungle’s strict no-contact policy. “I hate not speaking to her, it feels so weird,” he admitted, a sentiment that cuts through the curated perfection of social media.
Separate Challenges, Shared Strength
The couple’s separation isn’t just physical—it’s a collision of ambitions. Spencer, 37, is no stranger to endurance. Last year, he completed 30 marathons in 30 days across the Jordanian desert for charity, and now he’s preparing for Project Seven: seven full-distance triathlons on seven continents in under four weeks. Vogue, meanwhile, is carving her own path in the jungle, quickly becoming a fan favorite for her authenticity and resilience.
Both have voiced their pride and support for each other’s endeavors, even as conflicting schedules mean they’ll be apart for weeks. Vogue’s own podcast, My Therapist Ghosted Me, became a platform for her to address rumors of relationship trouble. She suggested that speculation about a “break-up” was sparked simply by Spencer’s absence in her recent social media posts from the Glen Affric Estate in Scotland—a reminder of how the public gaze can distort reality.
Rumors and Reality: Navigating Public Scrutiny
Vogue addressed the rumors head-on: “I could only assume it was because he wasn’t in my content for Affric, because he came up on the Saturday. But I’m like, maybe it’s because he’s going away as well on his thing for three weeks…” She pushed back on the notion that constant togetherness is required to prove their unity, quipping, “Do we have to be sewn together now to show that we’re a united front?”
This candid approach is part of what endears the couple to fans. Instead of dodging speculation, they confront it with humor and honesty, acknowledging the pressures that come with fame. Their willingness to share both the highs and the lows—public success, private longing—draws a clearer picture of modern celebrity relationships, where even the most glamorous lives are shaped by ordinary challenges.
Family, Fame, and Life in the Spotlight
Spencer and Vogue’s story began in 2017 on Channel 4’s The Jump. A year later, they were married, and now share three children: Theodore, six; Gigi, four; and Otto, three. Their blended family, including Vogue’s previous marriage to Westlife singer Brian McFadden, reflects the complexities of life lived in the public eye.
Despite busy careers and the demands of fame, they regularly share glimpses of their family life online, balancing the desire for privacy with the expectations of their audience. As Vogue adapts to jungle life and Spencer pursues new physical feats, their children remain at the heart of their story—reminders of what truly matters when the cameras stop rolling.
What Makes Their Relationship Work?
Their dynamic isn’t without its challenges. Both have spoken openly about the need for independence, even as they cherish their bond. Vogue’s comment about not needing to “be sewn together” to prove unity resonates far beyond celebrity circles, touching on universal truths about trust and individuality in relationships.
Spencer’s reflections reveal a partnership built on mutual admiration and growth, not just public appearances. “Every single banging tune that I listened to today reminded me of her,” he wrote—an everyday moment, rendered meaningful by absence. Their ability to communicate openly, even about awkward or “weird” feelings, is perhaps the strongest testament to their resilience as a couple.
As Vogue faces jungle challenges and Spencer embarks on Project Seven, both are charting new territory—separately, but with unwavering support. Their story is a reminder that even in the glare of celebrity, real connection is forged in the quiet, ordinary moments: missing a phone call, cheering from afar, and trusting each other through change.
While some may see separation as a sign of trouble, the facts point to a couple who embrace life’s unpredictability with candor and courage. By sharing their true feelings and supporting one another’s ambitions, Spencer and Vogue are rewriting the narrative of celebrity relationships—proving that love isn’t measured by proximity, but by the strength to stand together, even when apart.
